Everyone of us want to improve and groom ourselves at every stage of life and this is how our personality grooms but have we ever thought of hurdles which actually destroys us. Those hurdles, which diminishes our confidence, self beliefs and positive thoughts. We all fight a war inside us which day by day spoils us from inside and this happens when we do not get familiar of our real MISTAKES. The day we get familiar to our self-made mistakes would be the start of our self satisfaction. Those Big Mistakes are:
Sometimes it happens when we get afraid of taking action for our goals. For example: There comes limits. Those limits which occur due to the conservative thinking of society and so that we become another victim. Never let your goal wasted because of stupid rules or norms of society. This is your power which would be destroyed if you focus too much on stupidities and so you would be spoiling from inside.
Anyway we should try not to compare ourselves or others with anyone. This is one of the major reason of our depression specifically new generation which is suffering from depression all the time should focus on this mistake. This is not a mistake rather biggest mistake.
Which mistake have you made?
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1. Wrong Company:
Your wrong company is the hurdle between your success. Make it right because wrong company is basically the call to negative thoughts which drag you down and do not let you to focus on your goals. Moreover Wrong company leads you to distraction and makes you focus on the nasty side of life. They are never your well-wishers rather they do not allow you to recognize the bad in them and makes you think them honest and perfect for your social circle.
Do try to choose right people in your life and try to be a keen observer where at least you become able to recognize the good and bad people. Those people who make you feel comfortable, who boost your self confidence, who stand aside you when you are in problem, who help you grooming and who are your well wishers.
2. Ignoring Your Worthwhile Goals:
Your goals have the power of achievement. When you think of goals and want to achieve something out of them, you actually are walking on the right path. But what stops you from achieving the goals? Your limits? Your Emotions? or your Laziness? Why to procrastinate when you have known your worth and once you wanted to achieve something but you stopped. Do you think such type of things would let you live a happy life without wars inside you. These are the things which actually arouses the wars inside us. Ignoring our goals is the biggest mistake of our life. There should not be any compromise regarding goals. Only you are responsible of your life and don't let anyone write the story of your life.Sometimes it happens when we get afraid of taking action for our goals. For example: There comes limits. Those limits which occur due to the conservative thinking of society and so that we become another victim. Never let your goal wasted because of stupid rules or norms of society. This is your power which would be destroyed if you focus too much on stupidities and so you would be spoiling from inside.
3. Lettings Others To Control Destiny:
You are your own Hero. Letting others control your destiny is your stupidity. Not everyone is your well wisher. Never be someone who can easily controlled or destroyed by others. This is the aspect from which we remain unfamiliar and someone slowly and gradually traps us from our back.
There can be many reasons for letting other controlling your destiny.
- Whether you Love someone and other does not nd this is how you let yourself be used by other. Sometimes Emotions are the root cause of destruction.
- You share each and every thought even every emotion with someone who is evil inside. Sharing the most inner emotions with someone instead of soul mate is ultimate stupidity.
- You do not ponder on your worth rather you remain unfamiliar to your worth and this is how you let others control your destiny.
- Most importantly, You measure your success by the approval of others. Others approve you happy, others reject you depress.
4. Comparing Yourself with others:
Comparing with others is the epidemic disease now a days. when we start comparing ourselves with others then here starts our real destruction. We start thinking that others are better than us or we are nothing etc. This is basically lowering your self confidence as well as lowering the self esteem. We are living in an era where even parents compare their children with other's children. This is how sick society is destroying this generation and then this very society says "new generation is spoiled". They never think that They weren't born destroyed but YOU made them.Anyway we should try not to compare ourselves or others with anyone. This is one of the major reason of our depression specifically new generation which is suffering from depression all the time should focus on this mistake. This is not a mistake rather biggest mistake.
Which mistake have you made?
PONDER OVER YOUR MISTAKES AND STAY TUNED TO OUR WEBSITE FOR MORE DESIRABLE TOPICS BY SUBSCRIBING IT.
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