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6 REASONS OF DEPRESSION DAMAGING YOUR PERSONALITY

You are Sad, miserable, irritated,
Feeling upset,
Blaming yourself,
Feeling distracted,
Want to close yourself in dark room,
Want to stay lonely,
No contacts,
Cry when lonely,
Or tries to stone yourself,
Stays silent and at last
Wish of death… if not then think of suicide.

These are YOUR stages of depression. Isn’t?

Dear young people! we all go through these stages of life once when no one can make us understand the pessimistic-ism in us, when no counselling aids us, when no article helps us rather we think that whatever we think is RIGHT. And you know what guys…… here we actually destroy ourselves.

The reasons behind our depression:

No acceptance:

You get irritated, upset or feel miserable because you don’t accept the present situation and this is how we start blaming the situation so you hurt yourself and get uncomfortable.
Regression:
Another reason is that when you don’t accept the situation you start thinking of such type of phrases “I wish I could have done this or that” or “It could have been done” etc and at last that stage comes when you start blaming yourself. 

Comparison:

The day you start comparing yourself with others will be your last happy day of life. Always remember your worth. You are in this world because of many great dignified reasons so stop adverting others and give attention to build your personality. Comparing oneself with others is one of the biggest reason of depression these days.

Impatience: 

We all are impatient however when we effort to get our desirable stage but we do not able to reach at that very moment that then here starts our negative thinking. We get impatient of reaching that stage and finally we feel ourselves useless and say “I cannot do anything in life, I am useless”. Here starts our depression.

Expectations:

This is the most common mistake of everyone rather we all know this is mistake and still DO it. Shakespeare said:
“Expectation is the root of all heartache”
Perhaps you are in love with someone then it doesn’t really mean to expect any,anything from her\him because YOU love not he\she. Expectations should always belong to God and if you are atheist then still you cannot expect anything from mortal beings. 

Death:

When you had been through all stages of pessimistic-ism then comes the stage of wishing death and if not then you think of suicide. This final stage is called the extreme of despairing. This despairing leads you to hell but does NOT restraints you from your negative thinking.


Guys! Don’t let yourself spoiled. Just think of those who LOVE you mainly your parents and if you have mislayed them then think of God who sent you in this world with aims. Who gave you talents with which you are unfamiliar. You are worthwhile, help yourself build your personality with enthusiasm.
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