We live in a society where negative comments are the colloquial thing BUT we are still not addicted to this. Have you ever thought WHY?
The answer is BECAUSE which ever thing teases us or kick us in the hell of insecurities or most importantly which damages our personality can never become our addiction. We always search for the solution to get rid off nasty comments. Or even we are always thinking of WHAT WILL PEOPLE THINK....... and here starts the war, the war of insecurities which destroys our confidence.
So it has become essential to ignore negative comments of negative people to have a great personality and to live a happy meaningful and secure life which would be possible if you follow these 6 strategies:
MAKE A DECENT DEAL WITH YOURSELF:
Accept the reality that negative comments will follow you so make a decent deal with yourself which is not to respond. Negative people always wait for the answer of their negative comment but if you just smile and don't respond from your tongue will be a slap for them.
Moreover if it is really necessary to respond then respond in a way that if that comment is positive one to you. It will make them confused.
NEVER TAKE PERSONALLY:
When you are taking anyone's comment personally then it becomes apparent through your gestures which gives a green signal to the other to tease you again. Always remember, negative people's negative comments shows their inner-selves NOT yours.
So just stay calm and take a deep breath. It won't hurt you unless you start noticing of their comments.
NEVER UNDERESTIMATE YOUR WORTH:
People who says YOU CAN'T DO THAT are the one who are always scared of your success, who knows that you CAN do that. Basically it is the strategy to keep one far from that success which the other person always longed for.
Always know your worth. Actually knowing your worth is the most fundamental part of grooming your personality. If you get familiar to your worth, you get confident that yes! I can do this. Confidence is magnificent of all.
- Rising strong
- Falling in love with where you are
- Alchemist
BE POSITIVE TO YOURSELF:
Negative people have a habit of never giving the sign of ACCEPTANCE. For example that is your office boss who is freaking you out by not accepting any of your work just because he likes you to stay busy all the time or these type of people do this just to make themselves superior or if anyone makes fun of your creativity And you start asking questions to yourself
Can't I do anything perfectly?...... Am I a fool?...... Am I nothing that they directly insults me?
No man, you are all perfect, It just in your head that you are getting negative to yourself and this is what they want you to feel moreover it damages your personality with the period of time. You cannot do anything with their thinking but at least you can change your perception and your thinking towards yourself.
YOUR DREAM IS ONLY YOURS:
With the negative comments of people, you mostly go through the comments mocking your dreams. For example: It has been observed that many youngsters dream of having a world tour. By taking this example it was also observed that most of the people mocks badly of this dream. Whereas, dreams are dreams and everyone has the right to see dreams and fulfill them for own satisfaction.
So that is not at all your concern of what others are saying or what others are thinking. It has somehow a negative effect on your personality and negative effects get always apparent through your gestures. Be straight to your goals, people will gossip this is all what they know but once you reach your goal, their tongues will automatically stop. When you are in love, do you ever heed of what people are gossiping? It is just like that. just ignore of what others are saying. After all you are master of your life.....not others.
TAKE TIME TO PONDER OVER YOURSELF:
When all you can do is ignoring them then why not to give complete focus on to yourself in grooming. They will keep on commenting, if not on your face then on your back so during all this you can focus on yourself. Take healthy food, make a routine, meditate and work for your goals.
Happiness helps you grooming your personality, try to live happily by ignoring every negative person at your surroundings. Surround yourself with people who support you which gives you enthusiasm to achieve something in life, who shows you the right ways and who are always happy in your happiness.
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