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Border between success and failure

Successful person is the most reverend towards whole world but what of failure who could not achieve that higher place as successful person. Whether he\she should suicide of this extreme guilt or should make a new step to achieve success? But here rises a question that why did he\she fail? Is this because of less exertion….this can be the reason however, the major border between the success and failure is person THINKING.


Thinking is the weapon which is hundred percent responsible of your ignominious aspects of life. And you should ponder that what type of thinker you want to be.

Types of thinking 
       Positive thinking
       Negative thinking

The pessimistic-ism is always apparent through person’s gestures and specifically the way he\she talks of this world. Suppose a pessimistic person goes for the job interview and he\she is already thinking of failure in getting the job would definitely not get the job because of his\her negative gestures moreover the RAYS (according to science), the negative rays which passes through the body. On the other hand a person who is with bad grades in his\her C.V but is quite confident and optimistic thinker will get that job because of his confident gestures and those optimistic rays.

             We all have given the limits of everything just like thinking also has its limits, more you’ll make the imaginary world in your head the more you’ll be despondent towards this real world. Sometimes too much thinking leads you to depression.

Your thinking makes you or destroys you.

 We are mortal beings who are sent to this world NOT for enjoying at the seashore or NOT to have the sun bath but we need to comprehend the reasons of this world. And for this purpose we are given the capacity to think.

We need to think of the purpose of our lives, we need to think of the purpose of nature, we need to think of the purpose of different thinking. Not everyone is with same style of rumination although this is the most infrequent favor from God that we can always have additional ideas before us. As George Bernard Shaw said:

 “if you have an apple and I have an apple and we exchange these apples then you and I will still each have one apple. But if you have an idea and I have an idea and we exchange these ideas, then each of us will have two ideas”.

Then there are different type of thinkers:

       Thinkers
       True thinkers

A simple thinker has the idea of competing others and to achieve the goals of life whereas true thinker always considers others of not hurting anyone while achieving the goals.        

Now it’s up to you. Whether you want to be optimistic or pessimistic and just a thinker or a true thinker?


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  1. if you have an apple and I have an apple and we exchange these apples then you and I will still each have one apple. But if you have an idea and I have an idea and we exchange these ideas, then each of us will have two ideas"👍👍👍

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  2. Very Helpful.. Great effort 👌

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