Enlightening You!

Mentally strong people are those who contain inner strength, they have 3 major C's in their lives which is compromise, competency and moreover confidence that is why there are some of the most impossible things which they do not like to be done in anyway. As the Time, Energy, loved ones, the present and future means a lot for them so they avoid some of the things which are as following: 1) They don't like insecurities: As it is said: Confidence is silent but insecurities are loud. Then why to be shy which is ultimate insecurity. Go and conquer the world. No one will say anything and if they do then ignorance is the best policy. Mentally strong people always take the policy of ignorance along with them because they know world is all about this that is why they are confident and hates shyness. Insecurity exist no where in their lives because they always know their worth. 2) They don't please others: This is one of the greatest trait of mentally strong people that ...

We all have somebody in our life to whom we attract due to his\her prosperous life BUT why to just attract towards others? Why you don't make yourself a great personality? Think upon it. Everyone has hidden talents and those talents come out when we follow some of the most essential rules that make us prosperous. Some of the success rules are as following: 1) THEY ARE SELF-DISCIPLINED: The foremost rule is Self discipline which makes you stronger as it establishes the inner strength because inner strength always leads you to success. There is no disadvantage of being a strong person rather to be strong should be the essential part of life. Moreover when an individual gets self-disciplined, he\she starts building better relationships. Then you no longer long for the perfect relationship because you get one. There is one more great advantage that self-discipline which made you strong does not let anyone offend you in any case.  2) THEY NEVER GIVE-UP: We go through many wo...

We live in a society where negative comments are the colloquial thing BUT we are still not addicted to this. Have you ever thought WHY?   The answer is BECAUSE which ever thing teases us or kick us in the hell of insecurities or most importantly which damages our personality can never become our addiction. We always search for the solution to get rid off nasty comments. Or even we are always thinking of WHAT WILL PEOPLE THINK....... and here starts the war, the war of insecurities which destroys our confidence. So it has become essential to ignore negative comments of negative people to have a great personality and to live a happy meaningful and secure life which would be possible if you follow these 6 strategies: MAKE A DECENT DEAL WITH YOURSELF: Accept the reality that negative comments will follow you so make a decent deal with yourself which is not to respond . Negative people always wait for the answer of their negative comment but if you just smile and don't resp...

Your body language speaks louder than your words. It is the thing which you do not notice but the people around you notice so try to build your personality that impresses everyone. Follow these simple ways to groom your body language: Eye Contact: Make it a rule: keep your chin up and so your eyes. Don't walk or  converse with the lower eyes. Lower eyes are the reflection of low confidence and confidence is everything. Whenever you communicate, communicate with eyes in eyes, never get nervous to look into the eyes but do not stare. It becomes little awkward.  When in public: for example you are giving some speech in a meeting, do look in eyes of everyone to take everyone into your confidence. Moreover if you give too much eye contact possibly you might get confused and unconsciously your self confidence might lag and this is how body language get dizzy. Remember: EYES SPEAK. Sit Or Stand Straight with back shoulders: To sit or stand straightly is what make...

You are evaluated in just few seconds when you meet somebody for the first time. In that small duration the other one perceives opinions about you by judging your manners, your body language, your speaking style and most probably by your dressing. It all comes under your appearance.  Try to build your first impression effective which does not let you down. Here are some basic tips through which you can easily get success to make your first impression powerful. Be Punctual: Getting late when you are to meet any person for the first time would be your fallacy toward him\her because that person isn't familiar to you and he\she is not interested in your excuses. Reaching late anywhere gives bad effect whether you have to go for the job interview, for meeting your girl friend\boy friend for the first time or you have to reach for any dinner. Always be on time, to be punctual just set your mind that if your flight will be missed. Reaching on time always dignifies you. Your Ap...

No one is born with strong mentality but one becomes strong by its own choice. Our life experiences make us strong but when it comes on taking some big decisions in life then here comes the test of our strong mentality. To be strong for everyone is necessary part so judge yourself whether you are strong or not by these traits of mentally strong people: They keep everything in balance because of emotional intelligence: Balancing life with all the aspects cannot be done by everyone. The main hurdle comes which disturb your balanced life is when you start giving more importance to your emotions. A mentally strong person is emotionally intelligent. He\she does not let his\her life disturbed in any way. Proper balance is when you set your life schedule to achieve the goals and do not let yourself distracted. You keep balance when you set the time to meet your lover and meets him\her at right time, when you give your parents the proper time, when you comes on social media with any speci...

Have you got bored of watching one to one movies? Well don't be. There are some those influential movies which might change your perception of looking the world.  1) THE SHAWSHANK REDEMPTION: This great film (hollywood) was directed by Frank Darabont. He directed it so keenly that this film has become the most popular and most watched movie. No movie could compete it. It is also the novel on which this whole film is based. If you are novel lover then do read that because definitely reading novel takes you to another world where you enjoy another life. This movie is about the Andy dufresne who is the protagonist, well he is shown as a great banker who got in shawshank jail in the accusation of murdering his wife and his wife's lover. And here starts the real story of film when you find the philosophical dialogues about HOPE and Prison. But at the end you will remain astounded with the great escape of Andy Dufresne. So must watch it and you will watch it again and agai...