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We live in a society where negative comments are the colloquial thing BUT we are still not addicted to this. Have you ever thought WHY?   The answer is BECAUSE which ever thing teases us or kick us in the hell of insecurities or most importantly which damages our personality can never become our addiction. We always search for the solution to get rid off nasty comments. Or even we are always thinking of WHAT WILL PEOPLE THINK....... and here starts the war, the war of insecurities which destroys our confidence. So it has become essential to ignore negative comments of negative people to have a great personality and to live a happy meaningful and secure life which would be possible if you follow these 6 strategies: MAKE A DECENT DEAL WITH YOURSELF: Accept the reality that negative comments will follow you so make a decent deal with yourself which is not to respond . Negative people always wait for the answer of their negative comment but if you just smile and don't resp...

Your body language speaks louder than your words. It is the thing which you do not notice but the people around you notice so try to build your personality that impresses everyone. Follow these simple ways to groom your body language: Eye Contact: Make it a rule: keep your chin up and so your eyes. Don't walk or  converse with the lower eyes. Lower eyes are the reflection of low confidence and confidence is everything. Whenever you communicate, communicate with eyes in eyes, never get nervous to look into the eyes but do not stare. It becomes little awkward.  When in public: for example you are giving some speech in a meeting, do look in eyes of everyone to take everyone into your confidence. Moreover if you give too much eye contact possibly you might get confused and unconsciously your self confidence might lag and this is how body language get dizzy. Remember: EYES SPEAK. Sit Or Stand Straight with back shoulders: To sit or stand straightly is what make...

You are evaluated in just few seconds when you meet somebody for the first time. In that small duration the other one perceives opinions about you by judging your manners, your body language, your speaking style and most probably by your dressing. It all comes under your appearance.  Try to build your first impression effective which does not let you down. Here are some basic tips through which you can easily get success to make your first impression powerful. Be Punctual: Getting late when you are to meet any person for the first time would be your fallacy toward him\her because that person isn't familiar to you and he\she is not interested in your excuses. Reaching late anywhere gives bad effect whether you have to go for the job interview, for meeting your girl friend\boy friend for the first time or you have to reach for any dinner. Always be on time, to be punctual just set your mind that if your flight will be missed. Reaching on time always dignifies you. Your Ap...

No one is born with strong mentality but one becomes strong by its own choice. Our life experiences make us strong but when it comes on taking some big decisions in life then here comes the test of our strong mentality. To be strong for everyone is necessary part so judge yourself whether you are strong or not by these traits of mentally strong people: They keep everything in balance because of emotional intelligence: Balancing life with all the aspects cannot be done by everyone. The main hurdle comes which disturb your balanced life is when you start giving more importance to your emotions. A mentally strong person is emotionally intelligent. He\she does not let his\her life disturbed in any way. Proper balance is when you set your life schedule to achieve the goals and do not let yourself distracted. You keep balance when you set the time to meet your lover and meets him\her at right time, when you give your parents the proper time, when you comes on social media with any speci...

Have you got bored of watching one to one movies? Well don't be. There are some those influential movies which might change your perception of looking the world.  1) THE SHAWSHANK REDEMPTION: This great film (hollywood) was directed by Frank Darabont. He directed it so keenly that this film has become the most popular and most watched movie. No movie could compete it. It is also the novel on which this whole film is based. If you are novel lover then do read that because definitely reading novel takes you to another world where you enjoy another life. This movie is about the Andy dufresne who is the protagonist, well he is shown as a great banker who got in shawshank jail in the accusation of murdering his wife and his wife's lover. And here starts the real story of film when you find the philosophical dialogues about HOPE and Prison. But at the end you will remain astounded with the great escape of Andy Dufresne. So must watch it and you will watch it again and agai...

THIS IS 21st CENTURY WHERE YOU ARE JUDGED BY YOUR LOOKS. Going for the job interview? Getting ready to hang out? Gonna attend some seminar? Going on a date? Going to office? Even going on shopping? Your looks are what comes at first. So always be curious about your looks. No one would judge you by your inner beauty because this is world which will not let you pass any stage of life without tiptop decent looks. Inner beauty is as essential as drinking water but your inner beauty will be counted not in practical life so let us ponder upon the practicalities of life that how to get well dressed to achieve some essential goals. GOOD HYGIENE SHOULD BE TOP PRIORITY: Wash your face five times a day and put somes quality lotion. Bathing is the most important aspect so bath daily. Wear some cologne after bath it will help you stay fresh. Moreover Brush your teeth at least two times a day. Talking with someone with bad smell from mouth can be an alarming sign for you bec...

You are Sad, miserable, irritated, Feeling upset, Blaming yourself, Feeling distracted, Want to close yourself in dark room, Want to stay lonely, No contacts, Cry when lonely, Or tries to stone yourself, Stays silent and at last Wish of death… if not then think of suicide. These are YOUR stages of depression. Isn’t? Dear young people! we all go through these stages of life once when no one can make us understand the pessimistic-ism in us, when no counselling aids us, when no article helps us rather we think that whatever we think is RIGHT. And you know what guys…… here we actually destroy ourselves. The reasons behind our depression: No acceptance: You get irritated, upset or feel miserable because you don’t accept the present situation and this is how we start blaming the situation so you hurt yourself and get uncomfortable. Regression: Another reason is that when you don’t accept the situation you start thinking of such type of phrases “I wish I could have done this ...

So you are trying to reach the perfectness of writing? Well don’t worry, you are on right way as we will help you out to become an influential writer. But to achieve any perfection we must first follow some rules: You are writing something because you have some ideas. But always keep in mind never care for anyone that what reader would think . This is not at all your concern of what the reader might think as writer is not writer until he\she writes what his\her inner self says. Always listen to your intuition. Before writing something, keep the main context in your mind that will help you to connect each sentence or idea with another. Don’t ever mix any idea with another because reader may get confused and that is how your writing will not remain with any influence. Train your mind to observe and capture new ideas. Your mind should always be thinking of some new ideas. Your writing is the reflection of your thinking so make your thinking level vast. ...

English is currently the most used language in the world. Even it has become the key to success. Beside your goals and the plans of achieving goals, the grip in English language is the fundamental part. For achieving the grip in English language you need to follow some essential rules: ❏ Confidence : Be confident to speak English. No one is out there to stop you from speaking wrong English or if anyone hinders you then just ignore them and continue speaking as much as you can. Always keep in mind whoever questions over your speaking wrong english is itself nothing and trust in yourself no one is really thinking anything. Remember “confidence breeds success and success breeds confidence”. ❏ Communication: Your level of communication will decide how good you would be the English speaker. The more you’ll communicate in English the more you will be better english speaker. The key to learn any language is to communicate in that particular language without thinking that w...

Successful person is the most reverend towards whole world but what of failure who could not achieve that higher place as successful person. Whether he\she should suicide of this extreme guilt or should make a new step to achieve success? But here rises a question that why did he\she fail? Is this because of less exertion….this can be the reason however, the major border between the success and failure is person THINKING. Thinking is the weapon which is hundred percent responsible of your ignominious  aspects of life. And you should ponder that what type of thinker you want to be. Types of thinking  ●        Positive thinking ●        Negative thinking The pessimistic-ism is always apparent through person’s gestures and specifically the way he\she talks of this world. Suppose a pessimistic person goes for the job interview and he\she is already thinking of failure in getting the job would defin...